Art Of Being Alone....!!!

The art of being alone is the art of survival these days,gone are those days when an individual thinks we belong to a society consisting of helping hands n thinking brains, no one helps no one thinks for others.Once upon a time a newly married girl was always surrounded by girls, kids n many , now picture is contrary you come alone n you have to stay alone .A kid thrives for time from there his/her parents,old parents thrive n struggle for time from their kids , mom has no time for kid n vice versa. Friendship is  all motive n need based no one cares unless they need something from you.Human no longer a social animal but just an animal.With this scenario taking pace only one thing can make us feel good n that is only you,so be smart enough n learn the art of living alone asap.It doesn't mean you stay away from other people it simply means you be in them laugh with them cry with them but never expect anyone of those will be your part in your's laughing n weeping.  As we have words from a French novel and also the unofficial motto of Switzerland" all for one ,one for all" similarly you for all but no one for you.

Why to talk evil?
Answer cab n easily illustrated by this famous story from Muslim community......

The Triple Filter Test

During the golden Abbasid period, one of the scholars in Baghdad, the capital of Muslim caliphate at that time, was reputed to hold knowledge in high esteem.One day an acquaintance met the great scholar and said, "Do you know what I just heard about your friend?"
"Hold on a minute," the scholar replied. "Before telling me anything I'd like you to pass a little test. It's called the Triple Filter Test."
"Triple filter?"
"That's right," the scholar continued. "Before you talk to me about my friend it might be a good idea to take a moment and filter what you're going to say.
That's why I call it the triple filter test.
The first filter is Truth. Have you made absolutely sure that what you are about to tell me is true?"
"No," the man said, "actually I just heard about it and.."
"All right," said the scholar. "So you don't really know if it's true or not.
Now let's try the second filter, the filter of goodness. Is what you are about to tell me about my friend something good?"
"No, on the contrary..."
"So," the scholar continued, "you want to tell me something bad about him, but you're not certain it's true. You may still pass the test though, because there's one filter left: the filter of usefulness.
Is what you want to tell me about my friend going to be useful to me?"
"No, not really."
"Well," concluded the scholar, "if what you want to tell me is neither true nor good nor even useful, why tell it to me at all?"

hope now we can answer the above raised question......

a new era..

Resuming after a long gap.....now question arises why such a long gap?.i was tangled between ambiguity of my individuality but now finally m out of the trap.i m happy to resume my space of mind.
So starting again wid my new work named "khayaloon" by which i request a lady to break silence and speak out her desires.there it is.....


khayaloon
Tum mat rokna apne khayaloon ko, inhe aaj beh jane do,
Mat rokna aaj apne jubaan ko ,inhe aaj keh jane do,
Sadiyaan guzar gaee khamosi me,kei parat bhi jam pade hai,
Tootte hai jo parat aaj, unhe befikr toot jane do……
Tum mat……………………………………………………………………………..keh jane do.

Mein nhi kehta ki baatoon ko baar baar dohrayee jayee,
Kam se kaam ek baar to hame batayee jayeee,
Hara am sham ko hum mehfiloon me tabdil kar lete hai,
Chalo kabhi aapke khayaloon ki mehfil bhi sajayee jayeee.
Mat rokna aaj khudko ya mujhko ,aaj keh jane do,
Samjhne samjhane ka mausam aaya ha,i ek doje ko samajh jane do
Tum mat……………………………………………………………………………………….keh jane do.

Suna hai mein ne ki baatoon se hi baat banti hai,
Kehta hoon mein ki is se sari kainaat banti hai.
Apne baatoon or kainaatoon ko hamare kareeb aane do
Todo aaj sari bandeesho ko ,unhe aaj peeche choot jane do,
Gar chalakta hai maan tumhara sawaloon se kabhi, unhe hum per bhi chalak jane do
Tum mat……………………………………………………………………………………………..keh jane do.

Aab hame bhi tumhari baatoon me ghulna hai,
Tumahre khayallon me jhak kar ,aaj tum se milna hai,
Mat rookna aab khudko na humko….
Bas hum sab ko mil jane do…..
Tum mat …………………………………………………………………………………..keh jane do.\\\sumit jha\\\