aschaiya hota hai ki kaise khud ko kateel samajne lage hai ,
kabhi beet jati thi jindigi kinaro ki khaakh chante hue,
aaj log kinaro ko hi saheel samjahne lage hai.......
Sunday, March 21, 2010
change in desire
Tazzub nahi hota ki log khud ko kabil samajhne lage hai,
aschaiya hota hai ki kaise khud ko kateel samajne lage hai ,
kabhi beet jati thi jindigi kinaro ki khaakh chante hue,
aaj log kinaro ko hi saheel samjahne lage hai.......
aschaiya hota hai ki kaise khud ko kateel samajne lage hai ,
kabhi beet jati thi jindigi kinaro ki khaakh chante hue,
aaj log kinaro ko hi saheel samjahne lage hai.......
Saturday, March 20, 2010
an artcle by cj charuu
WE ARE the citizens of the nation! We all have voices! All we need is to stand up and make the right noise!
Ghaziabad March 16, 2010, a teenage girl gets raped by her uncle; the village panchayat punishes the guilty by ordering him to be hit 5 times with shoes. The police turn up later, not to arrest the culprit but to arrest the people who ordered the hitting. Now what do we say about it?
A girl’s entire life gets marred and the man is still respected!!
Apart from the physical, mental, and psychological repercussions, she will never be accepted by society ever again.
No one is decent enough or brave to stand up for her and accept her, no matter how good she is at heart or in deeds. Her own family will almost kill her with their sharp comments and remarks. She would be considered a blot on her family.
The Mahila Mukti Samaj will have got another girl to rip off and make money, apart from name and fame. But none will be truly empathize and support her when she will need it the most.
And that culprit would be still respected and set free despite having committed such a grave crime
.
Such is the fate of the women of our independent and democratic country.
High time to question- Did we fight for years together to achieve this kind of Independence? Is this what was dreamt of by our constitution makers? The questions are endless and the answers are nowhere in sight!
when i saw this article few arises:1)how any body can do this?
2)why we r so insane?
Ghaziabad March 16, 2010, a teenage girl gets raped by her uncle; the village panchayat punishes the guilty by ordering him to be hit 5 times with shoes. The police turn up later, not to arrest the culprit but to arrest the people who ordered the hitting. Now what do we say about it?
A girl’s entire life gets marred and the man is still respected!!
Apart from the physical, mental, and psychological repercussions, she will never be accepted by society ever again.
No one is decent enough or brave to stand up for her and accept her, no matter how good she is at heart or in deeds. Her own family will almost kill her with their sharp comments and remarks. She would be considered a blot on her family.
The Mahila Mukti Samaj will have got another girl to rip off and make money, apart from name and fame. But none will be truly empathize and support her when she will need it the most.
And that culprit would be still respected and set free despite having committed such a grave crime
.
Such is the fate of the women of our independent and democratic country.
High time to question- Did we fight for years together to achieve this kind of Independence? Is this what was dreamt of by our constitution makers? The questions are endless and the answers are nowhere in sight!
when i saw this article few arises:1)how any body can do this?
2)why we r so insane?
"" AT THE END OF THE DAY""""
I often heard people talking ' at the end of the day i wanna have "then this list goes on n on n on . but at the end of the day we had nothing substantial.........here substantial refers to anything for the need of need...'need of need'...its quite absurd ?no its worthy ...by that i mean something which will be used by others ...not by me n my pedigree only.
when i talk of need then i should define it n it is "A need is something that is necessary for organisms to live a healthy life. Needs are distinguished from wants because a deficiency would cause a clear negative outcome, such as dysfunction or death. Needs can be objective and physical, such as food and water, or they can be subjective and psychological, such as the need for self-esteem.
now after reading the definition of need v are in state to understand the whole article.need and want are two distinct entity,in most cases as in all, we mix up need with wantings, there the problem arises and because of that our needs are becoming centered of limited n if a few of us know the difference then our needs are limited to physical needs only such as food place motor etc we r deviated from the path of need .So now is time to bisect the region of need n wanting into two separate region n make our brain to think of needs beyond physical needs only.
Now question arises 'what are substantial needs?' n 'how can think of needs for the need?'.And the answer is think of needs of other people around n see whether those needs are part of yours or not and if the answer is 'yes!!!!!we share some needs '' in that case you have needs for the need and then go for it.consider a need of having one BMW in your veranda ,such needs r only for you and for your pedigree.But think of a need.."i want to have a parallel company with BMW" now such needs are for the need n substantial because your this need will make upto many other need of other people and this will not be used by your pedigree but by the whole era.SO HAVE A ""NEED FOR THE NEED""
I often heard people talking ' at the end of the day i wanna have "then this list goes on n on n on . but at the end of the day we had nothing substantial.........here substantial refers to anything for the need of need...'need of need'...its quite absurd ?no its worthy ...by that i mean something which will be used by others ...not by me n my pedigree only.
when i talk of need then i should define it n it is "A need is something that is necessary for organisms to live a healthy life. Needs are distinguished from wants because a deficiency would cause a clear negative outcome, such as dysfunction or death. Needs can be objective and physical, such as food and water, or they can be subjective and psychological, such as the need for self-esteem.
now after reading the definition of need v are in state to understand the whole article.need and want are two distinct entity,in most cases as in all, we mix up need with wantings, there the problem arises and because of that our needs are becoming centered of limited n if a few of us know the difference then our needs are limited to physical needs only such as food place motor etc we r deviated from the path of need .So now is time to bisect the region of need n wanting into two separate region n make our brain to think of needs beyond physical needs only.
Now question arises 'what are substantial needs?' n 'how can think of needs for the need?'.And the answer is think of needs of other people around n see whether those needs are part of yours or not and if the answer is 'yes!!!!!we share some needs '' in that case you have needs for the need and then go for it.consider a need of having one BMW in your veranda ,such needs r only for you and for your pedigree.But think of a need.."i want to have a parallel company with BMW" now such needs are for the need n substantial because your this need will make upto many other need of other people and this will not be used by your pedigree but by the whole era.SO HAVE A ""NEED FOR THE NEED""
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